Brij Sachdeva blog

Walk away Written by  Brij Sachdeva Good people  Good people are simple, innocent and decent. They may not be clever and tactful but their goodness stems from their respect for relationships. They are nice because they love their family and those around them. They tend to avoid boldness because they do not want to compromise the peace and harmony in their relationships. They are not aggressive because they love the people around them. They love everyone around them not because this is their standpoint or a choice, but because of the fact that they are made of the stuff called love. They are the people of love. Their love is unconditional and unaddressed. Their love is not for this person or that person. They love because this is their nature. Their love is like the fragrance of a flower. The fragrance of a flower is not addressed to anyone. It is there because it is the nature of the flower.  Society In our society, there  is a general tendency to hurt good...

TRUTH IS A FLUX Written by Brij Sachdeva DYNAMICS OF TRUTH "Come out, gonna show you an elephant in the sky”  father sitting in the backyard called out to his little son.  By the time the child comes out, the elephant-shaped cloud changes its shape to a general ill-defined shape of a typical cloud. Now there is no elephant in the sky. Now there is no wonder, no excitement, no interest because it is just a cloud- all the same as usual. What was beautiful, became just obvious and casual. What was significant, one moment before, became insignificant the very next moment. What was a truth, became a lie in no time. What was right, became wrong in the context of the situation. By the time you decide that a person is good or right, he may become bad or wrong. By the time you think that a certain person is not worth giving a f**!!, may turn out to be of immense value to you. KNOW YOUR TRUTH The secret of knowing your Truth or Dharma is in figuring out your life situation and then ...

VICIOUS CIRCLE Written by  Brij Sachdeva  A vicious circle is a phenomenon of cause and effect in which the cause leads to the effect and in turn, the effect leads to the cause. Now if the first thing leads to the second thing and the second thing leads to the first thing, they will intensify and aggravate each other. Hence a feedback loop is created in which events reinforce each other through a reciprocal sequence. This feedback loop goes on intensifying until and unless intervened by some greater external force. Dehydration example Diarrhoea and vomiting lead to dehydration.  Dehydration leads to diarrhoea and vomiting. The more the diarrhoea and vomiting, the more the dehydration. The more the dehydration, the more the diarrhoea and vomiting. Poverty example When a vicious circle of poverty is established, it becomes very hard to break it. It passes on from one generation to another generation getting more and more severe with time. The more the poverty...